One of the most talented comic actors was Paul Lynde. Anytime he was ina film ora television show, all focus went on Paul Lynde.
Despite his large body of work on television and film, Paul will be remembered for his long stint as the center square on the gameshow The Hollywood Squares hosted by Peter Marshall.
The viewer waited anxiously for Paul to be called and offer an hilarious answer to one of Peter’s offbeat questions. As Peter as the straight man ( as he was to Toomy Noonan in films and stage) he set Paul up for his punchline for over 10 years.
For example:
Q: Paul, in what famous book will you read about a talking ass who wonders why it’s being beaten?
A: I read it, The Joy of Sex.
Q: The Great White is one of the most feared animals. What is the Great White?
A: A sheriff in Alabama.
Q: Paul, can anything bring tears to a chimp’s eyes?
A: Finding out that Tarzan swings both ways!
Q It is the most abused and neglected part of your body — what is it?
A: Mine may be abused but it certainly isn’t neglected!
Q: According to the old song, what’s breaking up that old gang of mine?
A: Anita Byant!
Q: Now listen carefully, Paul…during the time of the hula hoop, the yo-yo, and Davy Crockett hats, who was in the White House?
A: I’ll say the yo-yo!
Q: The Atlantic Ocean is the major body of water on Africa’s west coast. What major body lies off Africa’s east coast?
A: Ex-president Mobutu.
Paul seemed to be the only person who could get away with a certain brand of double entendres, perverted remarks, and pure bitchiness, and he was hilarious at it. It wasn’t just what he said, but his delivery that made it so funny.
However, Paul had a far more extensive career from his performance as the dad in Bye-Bye Birdie to playing Uncle Arthur- the prankster warlock on Bewitched. He also was a frequent guest on talk shows including The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson His appearance on a talk show guaranteed that a good time would be had by all (Paul, the host, and the audience).
Lynde was also a stand-up comedian before he became an actor. He also was the voice of many cartoon characters.
His friend, the wonderful actress Alice Ghostley started her career with him on Broadway in The New Faces of 1952. I interviewed Alice shortly before her death in 2007 for my Dr Feelgood book. She said that Paul was deeply troubled much of his life and had a longtime drinking problem that caused him problems. She also said that he had gotten clean before his death in on January 11, 1982. Alice, who at the time of her interview was ill with cancer, said she suspected Paul was ill with cancer as well and never told his friends.
We also interviewed The wonderful Ann-Margaret recently who had appeared with Paul ( as her father) in Bye Bye Birdie and a later film, thought that Paul was an ” enchanting and funny man.”
There are some who claim his death was a mystery however this is what was reported in his Wiki biography:
On January 11, 1982, after Lynde had failed to attend a birthday celebration, his friend Paul Barresi became concerned. When he and another friend, actor Dean Ditman, could not get an answer on the phone or from knocking on his door, Barresi broke into the side entrance to Lynde’s home in Beverly Hills, California and found him dead in his bed. Stories suggesting Lynde had a visitor at the time of his death who fled the scene circulated but could not be proven, as the comedian regularly activated his house alarm before retiring for the evening. When Barresi broke in, the alarm blared, indicating Lynde was alone at the time of his death.The coroner ruled the death a heart attack. Lynde’s cremated remains are interred at Amity Cemetery, in Amity, Ohio, next to those of his brother Johnny and sister Helen. His father and mother are buried at the same cemetery.
Paul was only 55 years old at the time of his death. From small town Mt. Vernon, Ohio ( which is just north of Columbus), he was a graduate of Northwestern University in a class that included Cloris Leachman, Charlotte Rae, Patricia Neal, Jeffrey Hunter and Claude Akins.
Paul also starred in the series Temperature’s Rising and the Paul Lynde Show.
From Wiki this part of his biography discusses his difficulties with alcohol that damaged his career in the 1970s
Alcoholism, arrests, and final years
The failure of his two series exacerbated Lynde’s alcoholism, leading to numerous run-ins with the law and frequent arrests for public intoxication. Peter Marshalland Kaye Ballard confirmed that Lynde, when inebriated, would sometimes ridicule his friends.
Despite his personal problems, Lynde’s continuing popularity led to his being signed by ABC to host a series of specials from 1975 to 1979, including;
The Paul Lynde Comedy Hour (November 6, 1975) with Jack Albertson, Nancy Walker and the Osmond Brothers;
The Paul Lynde Halloween Special (October 29, 1976) featuring the first prime-time network appearance of KISS, along with Margaret Hamilton recreating her role as the Wicked Witch of the West from The Wizard of Oz. Hamilton and Billie Hayes (as H.R. Pufnstuf’s Witchiepoo) teamed up in a skit where they ask Lynde to help them improve their (witches) image. Other guests included Betty White, Donny and Marie Osmond, Tim Conway, and Roz Kelly;
The Paul Lynde Comedy Hour (April 23, 1977) with Cloris Leachman and Tony Randall;
T’was the Night Before Christmas (December 7, 1977) with Alice Ghostley, Martha Raye, George Gobel and Foster Brooks;[21]
The Paul Lynde Comedy Hour (May 20, 1978) with Juliet Prowse, Brenda Vaccaro and Harry Morgan;
Paul Lynde at the Movies (March 24, 1979) with Betty White, Vicki Lawrence, Robert Urich and Gary Coleman;
Paul Lynde Goes M-A-A-A-AD (May 20, 1979) with Marie Osmond, Charo and Vicki Lawrence.
Lynde was involved in an incident at his alma mater, Northwestern University, in October 1977. He was the Grand Marshal for homecoming. At a fast food restaurant after the homecoming parade, he made racist remarks and gestures to an African-American man, who was a professor at the university. Lynde blamed his behavior on fatigue and inebriation.
Lynde was a regular guest on the 1976–79 variety show Donny & Marie until 1978. On January 4, he was arrested outside of a tavern in Salt Lake City at approximately 1:30 a.m. for interfering with a police officer. The officer, who was investigating a car burglary, claimed Lynde kept insisting that the officer “attend to Lynde’s complaint that his briefcase with $1,000 in cash and valuables inside had been stolen.” The complaint was later dropped, but he lost his guest-starring role on Donny & Marie as a result.
Lynde suffered from weight-control problems and was honored in 1977 by Weight Watchers. That year, Lynde’s beloved dog, Harry MacAfee, died. Lynde could not stay in the house without him and later bought a new home. He spent heavily to renovate the house.
As demand for his services declined, he accepted a wider variety of job offers. He appeared as a guest weatherman for WSPD-TV in Toledo, Ohio in 1978. He appeared as Indian chief Nervous Elk alongside former Bye Bye Birdie co-star Ann-Margret in the 1979 comedy The Villain, (released as “Cactus Jack” in the UK) which was to be his final film role.
Lynde had become disenchanted with being what he called “boxed into” Hollywood Squares and departed the series that same year. Acting jobs continued to be scarce, although it is unclear if this was due to homophobia or Lynde’s known substance abuse and alcohol problems, which made him difficult to work with.
Lynde became sober and drug-free in early 1980. At this time, Hollywood Squares was experiencing a downward trend in Nielsen ratings. Lynde did not want to return but changed his mind when he received co-star billing with host Peter Marshall. He returned to the series in the spring of that year and remained with the show until its cancellation in February 1981.
In November 1980, the Beaux Arts Society, Inc. (founded in 1857) designated Paul Lynde “King” of the Beaux Arts Ball. Kitty Carlisle Hart was designated “Queen” that year. Paul Lynde remained a Life Member of the Beaux Arts Society from 1980 until his untimely death.
Over 30 years after his death, Paul Lynde is still influencing people in Hollywood. There are several cartoon artist that do an impression of him for the voice of their characters. One such example is the alien character in the animated series “American Dad”.
I found a mean-spiritedness underlying his comedy that turned me off to most of his work. Inside my head, his voice still conjures up a combination of whine and grate. Though I was unaware of his drinking, it helps me understand his unhappiness with life.
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I agree that a type of snarky attitude underlined his comedy. But to me it was a unique cynicism.
I appreciate your thoughts about Lynde, I can see the basis for your dislike of him
Thanks
Rick
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I disagree. Paul Lynde’s humor wasn’t mean spirited. It was all done in fun. His style was clearly not your cup of tea. Don Rickles is probably not your cup of tea. Different styles for different comedians. To characterize To say Paul was mean spirited is not a fair characterization of the man.
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Hey Peggy, you are absolutely correct. Paul Lynn was incredible. And actually he was a pretty sweet man. Sweet as an a nice man. I really didn’t care about what his personal issues were. He meant well and I understood his humor. He was fantastic!
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I agree with you entirely Peggy. I understood his humor and from what I saw he was a very sweet man. And I mean that as a gentle and kind person. It was obvious to me. But he was an absolute genius with this comedy! I wish there was more true talent like that today.
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I found his sparkle and stunning looks and abilities wasted in Hollywood. He was this rare combination of hilarity, personality and an irresistible sexual magnetism that literally exploded on the screen the short times that he was seen. I wish that he would have taken better care of himself. Things would have been different. I guess that he expected too much. He should have gradually reinvented himself to survive. I miss him terribly. I will always love him.
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Well said
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Agree .Well Said
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Paul Lynde was a man with a heart of gold. He never held contempt for the feelings of others. You had to know him to understand the great human being he truly was. Never judge a book by its cover. It’s too easy to destruct than build. -Paul Barresi
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Thanks Paul. Did you know him?
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mr. baressi is one of the people who broke into paul’s house and found him dead. that must have been awful.
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yes, I knew Paul Lynde well. I met him at a party in Hollywood. In fact Dean Ditman, actor and dear friend of Paul’s, had the party. Dean was the one who stood next to me after I broke down Paul’s back door and we creeped through the dark house calling his name; his dog Alfred frantic and barking and the alarm blaring. When I got to the bedroom, before I even turned on the light, I knew Paul was gone. The notion that people think there was foul play is ridiculous. He died of a heart attack. He was not nude, like some reports, say. Paul was under the covers and in his PJ’s and bathrobe.
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Hey Peggy, you are absolutely correct. Paul Lynn was incredible. And actually he was a pretty sweet man. Sweet as an a nice man. I really didn’t care about what his personal issues were. He meant well and I understood his humor. He was fantastic!
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I agree…I loved Paul… he was a dear friend…I miss him every day…Steve Jones
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I loved him. The reason I watched Hollywood Squares was because Paul Lynde made me laugh so much. His wit was unbelievable. He was also very intelligent. He knew about a lot of different subjects and gave the correct answer most times. I also enjoyed listening to the other guests enjoy Paul’s sense of humor. Buddy Hackett and Peter Marshall we’re clearly entertained by Paul’s wit. God bless him. He made a lot of people laugh.
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Thanks
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Paul was such a misunderstood figure In Hollywood. His over use of sex, drugs, and alcohol created demons that eventually consumed his very existence. Truly sad. I love his cynical, blunt, In your fuckin’ face kinda comedy. Today’s generation is too sensitive & childish to appreciate what Paul Lynda brought to the table of comedy & television. R.I.P.
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Well said
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I personly love his attitude in the show bewiched and still watch it along with the paul lynde show.ps.wish you were still here.l also had a drinking problem but finally was abel to quit after almost dieing.rob pieneman from canada.
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Thanks. Glad you are in recovery. Thanks for. sharing
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Paul Lynda was a comedic Treasure! It’s been often discovered that the really great comedians are actually very troubled individuals in their personal lives. Robin Williams being a case-in-point. Perhaps it gives them a better perspective in contrast, in order to find the nuggets of comedy that exist but are often hidden! Just my opinion after avidly following the greats of Comedy for a lot of years!
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I found Paul Lynde an enigma. I always thought his best work was as Uncle Arthur on Bewitched, and I had the pleasure of seeing him live at a Hollywood Squares taping about 1970. But when he was bad, such as The Paul Lynde Show…
By no means was that his fault alone, but that was one huge misfire.
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You are right. Paul Lynde Show had Paul as a family man which is far against he type and strengths Paul range of talents were best as a comedian or comic actor in the right situation
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I’m glad I was alive when he was around. More often than not he was extremely funny. Wish he was still here today.
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Paul…wanted everyone to have a good time …his humor came mostly from his own life story and those around him (friends). To look at his body of work today ….he found a way to express himself and make everyone laugh. He told me once that “Life is short do what you want ,but try not to get caught”. I cherish the days I spent at Paul’s house eating and talking .Many of my friend are gone now from those days…Take a minute and tell your friends you love them …steve jones
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Well said
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Thank you…I hope everyone takes a minute and watches the old movies and shows from the 60’s and 70’s…That was a carefree time for all of us in Hollywood…I am retired and wish everyone well during this difficult time we are all facing…Just remember things will get better…Steve Jones
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A movie is in the works on Paul. I hope to God, they don’t take a creative stand without fact or basis. He deserves better.
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We agree
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I thought Tom McNulty was working on that and they had already picked an actor to play Paul. The script is from Edwin Cannistraci. I would hope it is factual. Hopefully they do reach out to other people that knew Paul. Thanks Stephen Jones
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I spoke with Tom McNulty on the phone only days after I heard about the movie in the works. I urged him to be factual. The first thing he said was, “Well, didn’t Paul Lynde die under some cloud of uncertainty. I told him under no uncertain terms that I broke down Paul’s side entrance door and found him dead of natural causes– emphases on the alarm blaring and nothing disrupted. The notion that some stranger or hustler or some killer broke in and killed him is absurd. I told him that if he gets somebody to portray me, to make sure whomever it is, he is ultra masculine and not some swish Hollywood cupcake type. lol. I even sent him a buff pic of me just to make sure he gets it right.
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I spoke with Tom. I encouraged him to not allow the nasty rumors and half truth characterizations of Paul overshadow his genius and great human being that he was.
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I would love to see a movie on the life of Paul Lynde. I was a major fan of his on Hollywood Squares as a kid growing up in the 70’s. When I watch him even today on old GSN I get a feeling that he was a truly nice and kind man, but I also get the feeling that he was also extremely troubled!
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Paul Lynde was a special man considering the time and place he came from. I study actors bios all the time. Many of the best comedians have troubled personal lives. Robin Williams, Bill Hicks, Sam Kinison, Richard Jenni, Phil Hartman were amazing performers. But, depression, substance abuse, relationship issues caused them terrible problems. Another one was the late Jan Hooks. She was a comic genius on SNL, and then she slowly faded away. She was offered many things, turned them down, and disappeared after 2000. She was a heavy smoker, drank, put on weight, had 3 different cancers, and died at 57 from throat cancer. She was liked, respected, and admired. Moral: show biz is often very disappointing and frustrating even for the best. All these people brought laughter and joy into our lives, and yet they suffered lots of inner pain. Makes me so sad.
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For the record. Contrary to Cathy Rudolph’s book, filled with inaccuracies, Paul had only stopped drinking 5 months before his death. I toured with him in summer stock in the summer of 1980. While on tour he drank a lot. In late March early April 1981, he quit drinking, cold turkey. Vodka 7up was his drink of choice. Therefore, he died approximately 8 or 9 months after he stopped drinking, not two years after, as reported in Rudolph’s book. He told me he quit and had no intention of ever drinking again because he made a promise to himself. The reason why he made that sworn promise to himself and why he was so absolutely committed to never drinking again, he shared with me in confidence.
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correction not 5 months but 8 to 9 months before his death
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Yes it was only 8 or 9 months before his death..that he did stop drinking..Paul your are correct…I only skimmed her book…I didn’t think it was all correct…I talked to Paul only days before his death about a get together with Doris to help her Charity for animals…..most of my friends are gone now….I just finished reading Full Service.. Scotty Bowers book…I waited a while …it was interesting ….I’m glad I’m retired….I miss the old days in Hollywood
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